How to Know if a Girl Is Interested in You Through Text Queer

March 12, 2022 Post a Comment

Figuring out if someone you're chatting to (maybe flirting with, who the fuck even knows?) is likewise queer can exist a goddam minefield. Sure, some people may accept the guts to just say it, only not everyone does OK?!

Here, 10 lesbian, bisexual and pansexual women explicate how they know if someone's potentially into them

How to know if someone is a lesbian, gay, bisexual or queer

Ask a question near their past relationships/crushes

"I'm bisexual. I find that I tin can tell when women are into me through things similar torso language, similar how close they'll sit next to me, or how much they might bear on my arm. By flirtatious conversation, and hints/references to previous girlfriends, or female dates. I take no idea how scientific something like 'gaydar' is, simply I found that I would often accept this intuitive feeling that another woman was gay/bisexual merely through my opening conversations with them (and picking upwards subconscious cues in their body language).

"And, people have claimed to have the same sense about me as well. So when I suspect it, I might just ask a question during the conversation that could assistance determine it, similar asking almost previous relationships they've had, or if they have any funny stories about sex activity, etc." [via]

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But ask them (politely)

"You tin can always politely ask them. It's a simple just effective way to be completely sure. I rather know if someone I may potentially be interested in is even open up to the possibility so I don't waste material my time." [via]

Ask them outright

"I have to outright ask. Every single time I've gotten a no (lol), even afterward kissing and dancing. Straight chicks, man. Doesn't help I have a pretty 'direct look'. Never been approached." [via]

Let them tell you

"She commonly tells me. I remember this is a big discrepancy between younger and older sapphic women, only similar, I don't have to wonder these days. I out myself, they out themselves. When you lot're younger and you lot feel similar y'all have to wonder, I call up merely be aggressively out when yous can and other women will as well." [via]

Wait for them to get in clear

"I'm awful at information technology. I don't feel similar I deserve women, so I don't let myself believe they could be flirting with me. I always justify it as them being friendly. My poor ex went through weeks of stroking my pilus, cuddling with me, and I 'accidentally' brushed my hand over her boob. You know, similar friends do! If I could go back in time, I'd be less of a moron in many ways and only enquire her if she likes girls." [via]

Experience it out

"Online with dating apps - it's easy because they listing their orientation. In real life - no clue unless they specifically mention it. Only have to feel it out like any other interaction." [via]

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Come out and see how they react

"Unremarkably, I casually come out to her and if she immediately reciprocates, that's a good sign." [via]

Observe how they mention their exes

"Difficult to tell if she is non outwardly gay or bisexual. Usually most of my 'gaydar' goes at things similar not typically feminine or bones. They either talk about their GF or female ex, or they don't talk about relationships at all. Seriously, every straight female person I've talked to lately either talked about their boyfriend, or their married man, or a male ex." [via]

They'll give yous an appreciative look

"I tin't define it, but at that place's this wait that gay women give out, an appreciation if you lot will. I've seen women on the train like this. Straight women NEVER await at other girls like that sober. I would say even something like their face structure, but that might be just me." [via]